1. Don't get overly excited about a guy
2. Don't make false equivalencies about their character
3. Don't be overly pessimistic
4. Don't appears to be over eager
5. Don't talk about your bad luck in dating
6. You want to look like someone with options
7. Avoid looking too vulnerable at first
8. Present yourself as strong and confident
They are sweet for a month or two then become emotionally distant
Love with your brain and date with discernment
Look for Connection, trust & support
Commit yourself to some form of awareness, discernment, good decision making
To throw everything you have at a stranger in order to gain acceptance is generally leads to disappointment
Don't worry about being liked worry about learning about this person
Ask good questions
Take good inventory of what's being told to you
Take good notes
