Thursday, April 30, 2015

Why do guys cheat?

There are a lot of questions that people ask like "why do guys cheat? ","what can i do to prevent cheating? " etc. Etc.

It it's what it is. I found a good article about it on Huffington post and wanted to share.

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5785624

This was the most interesting answer and let me know that some people expect it.

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I choose not to 'cheat' but we are both adults and he can do what he wants. He travels for work and I'm OK with an occasional passing romp. I almost expect it, as that's how we met. The odd thing is, he came to me admitting it and apologizing, saying he was drunk and stupid. I honestly think he was disappointed that I wasn't jealous. Then we talked it out and dealt with it like adults. Here's the thing: We are secure together and committed to each other. That's what matters. Emotionally, I know that he is all mine and I am all his. As I explained to him: if he wants someone else occasionally (not locally or regularly), and he is safe, and it doesn't interfere with our relationship, it doesn't bother me."
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Monday, April 27, 2015

Reality, Worry, Trust, God

Some people choose to see the world as mostly good with some bad elements.  They know this perspective may not be true but being optimistic about what is to come will help to keep you moving and make good things happen.

Some people choose to see the world as mostly bad with some good elements.  They know this perspective may not be true but being pessimistic about what is to come will prevent you from being disappointed when bad things do happen because they eventually do happen.

Reality is reality and trying to view it as anything else might be due to fear, worry or a lack of trust in God.  Reality can be scary.  We can't predict what tomorrow holds.  But if we know God's word, that might make it easier to view reality as what it is.